{"id":2226,"date":"2023-10-02T23:03:48","date_gmt":"2023-10-02T23:03:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bodysafetysongs.org\/?page_id=2226"},"modified":"2025-02-07T23:41:41","modified_gmt":"2025-02-07T23:41:41","slug":"talking-with-other-parents","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bodysafetysongs.org\/?page_id=2226","title":{"rendered":"Talking with Other Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<div\n      class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_page\"\n      data-kv-control=\"1\">\n    <\/div> <section class=\"background-id_0adjacent section-1696284751238 nucime25 rivisu76 undefined\" style=\" position:relative;\">\n  <a name=\"section1696284751238\"><\/a>\n    <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_section\"\n    data-kv-control=\"background\">\n  <\/div> <div class='kv-background  ' style=\" background-color: rgb(249,249,249);\">\n        \n        <div class='kv-background-inner '  style=\"\n          \n          \n          \n          background-color: rgb(249,249,249);\n          \"><\/div>\n          \n<\/div>\n\n  <div class=\"position-relative kv-content\">\n    <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_section\"\n    data-kv-control=\"content\">\n  <\/div> <div class=\"kv-ee-section kv-ee-align-left\"><div class=\"kv-ee-section-head kv-ee-section--lg\"><div class=\"kv-ee-container\"><div class=\"kv-ee-row\"><div class=\"kv-ee-col-12\"><div class=\"kv-ee-section-text\"> <h2 class=\"kv-ee-section-title kv-ee-section-title--md\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Talking with Other Adults<span data-prop=\"title\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/h2> <p class=\"kv-ee-section-subtitle kv-ee-section-subtitle--md\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Dropping kids off for a playdate, party, activity, etc. is a great time to remind kids of the body safety rules, that you love them, and that they can tell you if anyone breaks the rules or does anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. Its also a great time to share these empowering rules with other families.<span data-prop=\"subtitle\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/p>  <\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"kv-ee-section-content\"><div class=\"kv-ee-container\"><div class=\"kv-ee-content kv-ee-custom-shadow kv-ee-default-card kv-ee-seamless\"> <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_content\"\n    data-kv-control=\"list\">\n  <\/div><div class=\"kv-ee-list-control\">\n    <div class=\"kv-ee-row\" data-type=\"list\">\n        <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_list\"\n    data-kv-control=\"0\">\n  <\/div> <div class=\"kv-ee-col-12 kv-ee-item\"><div> <h3 class=\"kv-ee-title kv-ee-title--md\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Finding the Words<span data-prop=\"title\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/h3> <p class=\"kv-ee-description\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Sharing what you&#8217;ve learned about lowering the risk of abuse with your neighbors can help reduce risk in three ways. 1. If they or someone in the house is a predator, they will be wary of you and your child. 2. If they learn and adopt the body safety rules, they will enforce them in their own home as well, and your child will be safer playing there. 3. By sharing, you help more children be protected.<br>The Body Safety Songs help start conversations with kids, but how do we start these conversations with other adults? How do you bring up your safety rules with another adult without sounding like you&#8217;re accusing them of being an abuser? 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.kv-ee-col-lg-6{padding-left:3rem;padding-right:3rem}.rivisu76 .kv-ee-align-center .kv-ee-col-lg-4{padding-left:1.5rem;padding-right:1.5rem}.rivisu76 .kv-ee-align-right .kv-ee-col-lg-6{padding-left:4rem;padding-right:1rem}.rivisu76 .kv-ee-align-right .kv-ee-col-lg-4{padding-left:3rem}}<\/style><div\n      class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_page\"\n      data-kv-control=\"2\">\n    <\/div> <section class=\"background-id_0 section-1696285493937 komupe08 jikego13 undefined\" style=\" position:relative;\">\n  <a name=\"section1696285493937\"><\/a>\n    <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_section\"\n    data-kv-control=\"background\">\n  <\/div> <div class='kv-background  ' style=\" background-color: rgb(255,255,255);\">\n        \n        <div class='kv-background-inner '  style=\"\n          \n          \n          \n          background-color: rgb(255,255,255);\n          \"><\/div>\n          \n<\/div>\n\n  <div class=\"position-relative kv-content\">\n    <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_section\"\n    data-kv-control=\"content\">\n  <\/div> <div class=\"kv-ee-section kv-ee-section--md kv-ee-align-left \"><div class=\"kv-ee-container\"><div class=\"kv-ee-row\"><div class=\"kv-ee-section-text kv-ee-col-12\"> <h2 class=\"kv-ee-section-title kv-ee-section-title--md\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Scripts<span data-prop=\"title\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/h2> <p class=\"kv-ee-section-subtitle kv-ee-section-subtitle--sm\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">Here are some examples of how you might start these conversations in a comfortable, non confrontational way.<span data-prop=\"subtitle\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/p> <p class=\"kv-ee-section-description kv-ee-body--md\" data-type=\"text\" tabindex=\"0\">These examples include ideas for talking directly to the other parent, or for talking to your child in a place where the other parent can hear your conversation. <a href=\"https:\/\/bodysafetysongs.org\/?page_id=1942\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-href=\"https:\/\/bodysafetysongs.org\/?page_id=1942\" data-target=\"\" class=\"\"><font class=\"cstm-cl kv-ee-custom-text-cl3\">[Return to 3 Talks Menu]<\/font><\/a><span data-prop=\"description\" class=\"ck-editable-element\" data-editable=\"basic\" style=\"display:none;\"><\/span><\/p> <\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"kv-ee-container\"><div class=\"kv-ee-row kv-ee-row-align\"><div class=\"kv-ee-col-12 kv-ee-gutters kv-ee-portrait \"> <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_content\"\n    data-kv-control=\"list\">\n  <\/div><div>\n  <div class=\"kv-ee-row\" data-type=\"list\">\n    <div\n    class=\"kv-control-placeholder kv-_list\"\n    data-kv-control=\"0\">\n  <\/div> <div class=\"kv-ee-col-6 kv-ee-col-md-4 kv-ee-item\"><div class=\"kv-ee-column\"><div class=\"kv-ee-content-card kv-ee-default-card kv-ee-drop-shadow-sm 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